全英｜长大以后，朋友越来越少，正常吗？Why is it so hard to make friends as an adult?
All English｜Is it normal to have fewer friends as we grow up? Why is it so hard to make friends as an adult?
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This creates a kind of common denominator that brings us all together.
这创造了一种将我们所有人聚集在一起的共同点。
It becomes a little bit harder to be vulnerable with strangers.
与陌生人相处时变得更难展现脆弱。
Someone we see as a best friend might only see us as an acquaintance.
我们视为挚友的人可能只把我们当作熟人。
Old friendships can always be rekindled.
旧的友谊总是可以重新点燃。
We come off as a little bit more reserved.
我们表现得更加矜持。
This experience was honestly kind of heartbreaking for me.
这段经历对我来说真的有点令人心碎。
It made me rethink my entire outlook on adult friendships.
这让我重新思考我对成人友谊的整个看法。
When we were kids, friendships were pretty innocent and pure.
当我们还是孩子的时候，友谊是相当天真和纯粹的。
There are other things that come into play, like social status, personal motives.
还有其他因素在起作用，比如社会地位、个人动机。
Nothing in life is ever permanent.
生活中没有什么东西是永恒的。
common denominator
Our love for hiking was the common denominator that brought us together.
我们对徒步的共同热爱是将我们联系在一起的因素。
at the end of the day
At the end of the day, it's about being happy with yourself.
归根结底，重要的是对自己感到满意。
cut me off
After our argument, she completely cut me off.
我们争吵后，她完全与我断绝了联系。
come off as
I didn't mean to come off as rude.
我并不是想显得无礼。
grow apart
After college, we just grew apart.
大学毕业后，我们就逐渐疏远了。
move on with
After the breakup, she moved on with her life.
分手后，她继续自己的生活。
do their own thing
After graduation, everyone went off to do their own thing.
毕业后，大家都各奔前程去了。
show up
The right people will show up when you need them.
当你需要的时候，对的人会出现。
let things happen naturally
Don't rush the friendship - let things happen naturally.
不要急于建立友谊——让事情自然发展。
turn out to be
The job turned out to be completely different than I expected.
这份工作结果与我预期的完全不同。
Why is it so _____1_____ to make friends as an adult?
I still get a lot of _____2_____ from followers telling me how they related to my video.
I think when we were _____3_____, whether that be like middle school, high school, or sometimes even college, it was a lot easier to make friends.
And this creates a kind of _____4_____ denominator or common environment that brings us all together.
But as _____5_____, everything changes.
Some people focus on family, they get married, start having kids, and others might focus on their _____6_____, whatever it may be.
I think as we get older, it becomes a little bit harder to be _____7_____ with strangers.
So naturally, in order to protect ourselves, we come off as a little bit more _____8_____.
Old friendships can always be _____9_____.
We just need to be _____10_____ and let things happen naturally.
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Why is it so hard to make friends as an adult?
为什么成年后交朋友这么难？
Or why is it so hard to keep the friends that we do
或者说，为什么维持已有的友谊也如此
have?
困难？
A year ago,
一年前，
I made a video talking about how I don't have any friends,
我制作了一个视频，讲述了我没有任何朋友的故事，
and to this day,
直到今天，